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Documentary Exposing Military Rape Scandal Premieres on PBS Tonight

Note from Amy: This email was from the filmmakers who made “The Invisible War,” a groundbreaking film that dives into the difficult issue of military sexual assault. I’m on their email list as someone who cares about the issue and because they interviewed me as a journalist for the film. I hope you take their plea to heart and tune in to watch this very worthy documentary:

Tonight, our award-winning investigative documentary – the film that sparked this movement to expose the epidemic of rape within the military – premieres nationally on PBS.

 

You’ve been with us through this long fight, and tonight is a moment we can all share as a community. But not everyone knows the importance of this issue. In addition to tuning in, will you help spread our message once more and find a friend to watch with? CLICK HERE to get details and find your local TV listing.

 

Having THE INVISIBLE WAR broadcast on national television, providing public access to stories like Trina and Kori’s, couldn’t come at a more critical time.

As you may have heard, last week, the Department of Defense released the Sexual Assault Prevention and Response Office (SAPRO) annual report, and it showed a significant spike in assaults – an increase of 35% over the last year. Over 26,000 service members were sexually assaulted in 2012 alone. Moreover, the report came out two days after an Air Force officer in charge of sexual assault prevention was himself arrested for sexual battery. It’s clear as ever: the military does not understand the plague within its ranks.

One of our champions in Congress, Senator Kirsten Gillibrand said it best:
“If the man in charge for the Air Force – in preventing sexual assault – is being alleged to have committed a sexual assault this weekend, obviously there’s a failing in training and understanding of what sexual assault is and how corrosive and damaging it is to good order and discipline.”

Military sexual assault isn’t just making headlines on Capitol Hill. Over the past week, President Obama also spoke out, saying that he has “no tolerance” for sexual assault. Adding, “they’ve got to be held accountable – prosecuted, stripped of their positions, court-martialed, fired, dishonorably discharged, period.”

For those 26,000 servicemen and women who survived assault last year, and the thousands more survivors, the news is promising but the fight is far from over. We must keep up the momentum and continue to take action until change is realized and “Zero Tolerance” becomes “Zero Occurrence.”

So tonight, as you tune in to PBS, share why this fight means so much to you – enlist one friend to help ensure military rape is #NotInvisible.

Onward,
Kirby Dick and Amy Ziering

http://www.notinvisible.org/

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Diary of a Predator: A Memoir Wins An Independent Publisher Book Award

It was gratifying news: Diary of a Predator: A Memoir has been selected as a silver medalist in the 2013 Independent Publisher Book Awards in the category “Best Adult Non-Fiction Personal E-Book.”

Altogether, there were 382 medals awarded out of 5,200 entries, so I’m honored by the distinction. And it’s further testament that Diary is not just about the case of serial rapist Brent Brents; rather, it’s a very personal account of how my life was changed forever after being assigned that story.

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Not unsympathetic to the Idea of the death penalty

Note from Amy: In this post, Brent Brents is referring to the Boston Marathon bombings and the 19-year-old surviving suspect.

So yes i am sad about the whole Marathon deal. I feel sometimes like its wrong for me to have thoughts or feelings or empathy, and anger, or sadness because of what i did. That it some how Nullifies my feelings or thoughts in other people’s eyes.

But i do feel, and i do think. I am Not unsympathetic to the Idea of the death penalty for this Kid. I would have understood it for myself.

-Brent Brents 4-22-13

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Reader Question: Isn’t There Something That Can Be Done?

This thought-provoking message was sent to this website earlier this week after its author read my book, Diary of a Predator: A Memoir, which is the true-crime account of the case of serial rapist Brent Brents:

I could not put the book down, read it so fast probably didn’t digest it well.  What heart break and the amount of victims is just unbelievable.  As an entire country, isn’t there something that can be done on the education of children and parents to GENERATE solid parenting?  So much anger and hurt.  Maybe Brents emulated what he felt, experienced, and felt, but at least 2 generations before his are the responsible parties, for the constant abuse that was rained on he and his siblings.  Just find it hard to imagine people live, work, and socialize daily, go home and beat and rape each other  and their children!  It must change!!

  -Nancy

 

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Rape only happens when a predator, attacker or some shithead decides to take advantage

Note from Amy: In the following post, Brent Brents is referring to the Steubenville, Ohio rape case.

I believe in cases like this where the victims either drink or do drugs or are doped by some asshole These victims have a lot more guilt they deal with. Not to say they should. I think they think it is their fault for drinking or druging. But they shouldn’t feel guilt. Rape only happens when a predator, attacker or some shithead decides to take advantage of the victims in those situations. Like a high school football player who thinks he’s above the rules.

-Brent Brents 3-19-13

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that same apologetic teary eyed act

So i kept a close watch on the Stubenville Ohio Rape case where the two high school football players raped that girl. I’m glad the judge found them guilty. Shamed that he only gave them one year in juvee. The one Kid got all teary eyed and broke down apologizing. But it wasn’t out of empathy for the young girl. It was for him realizing he had just lost all that was good for him. It was selfish. I know because i have given that same apologetic teary eyed act before. It was selfish.

It’s to bad he doesn’t get empathy. It’s taken me a lifetime to realize the power that people with empathy have. They are often seen as week but the truth is they are the strong. I am getting there. But i was that boy with the tears and choking sobs. They are touching. But I like him, I was only  just realizing how bad i screwed up and what the consequences meant for me.

-Brent Brents 3-19-13

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Chemical Castration

Well my only real issue lately is my OCD. It’s real real hard (No Pun intended) to Not want to masturbate or Push the fantacies out of my head. I can’t masturbate because of the meds anyway. Chemical Castration so to speak. You might i would be sad or upset by that. Honestly No I couldn’t be happier about that part of my life. It sure makes it easier to push the fantacies aside and eases the compulsion to masturbate or wash my hands every 5 minutes. Because I equate the fantacies with dirty hands.

-Brent Brents 3-13-2013

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the leap from feeling the pain of loneliness to Rage

In February 2005, Brent Brents went on his final and most horrific crime spree, of which I write about in Diary of a Predator: A Memoir,  the book that is based upon his case. Recently he sent me a letter reflecting on this awful anniversary, and this is what he said:

I hate this part of February. I still can’t forgive myself for any of it. Valentine’s Day is like this big ugly reminder of all the hate, rage, and lost feeling. Over the years since I’ve been back in prison, I’ve come to realize that being Lonely really does fuck up ones thinking If you let it. Add Loneliness, Anti Social, and rage and you get one very cowardly, angry person who truly doesn’t know how to enteract or Communicate his desire to belong. I really didn’t have the mental health stuff all in check like i thought.  So it was easy for me to make the leap from feeling the pain of loneliness to Rage.

Once i began I didn’t want to stop. The more i did, the more i wanted to release the rage i had kept inside all those years. It’s difficult to reconcile me Then, to me Now.

Why is it we fight the Mental health Diagnosis. Years ago i was told i should probably be medicated. Maybe it would have helped. I can’t say for sure. But i doubt it i liked my drugs and the violence to much. But Now i enjoy the drug free life, I like knowing i have No stress over certain things in my life.

But the bigger truth in all this is I am constantly learning New things about emotions. I like this feeling of Compasion. And empathy is painful but necissary to really understand people and their feelings. Plus it helps me to feel like a real person.

-Brent Brents 2-11-13

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hard to battle the manic depression

i feel like a dog with Nothing but Love and pent up energy. It is hard at times Not to go insane in here. The Daily regamin is the same Day to day, week to week. I need it. Yet it does become mentaly heavy. It’s hard to battle the manic depression when i don’t have much positive stimulus.

-Brent Brents 1-20-13

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my head (still attached)

So i had this dream. You were holding my head (still attached). I had died. But i had lived a long time. We were in our 70s. You Kept whispering we made a difference. You were sad but in your heart you were sure we had done what we had set out to do all those years ago. It wasn’t a bad dream.

Brent Brents on 1-20-13, referring to the purpose of the book Diary of a Predator: A Memoir.

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